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Topic: Consent (BDSM)

	Consent
		As soon as Cinderella realises that this guy is not Prince Charming she is free to withdraw her consent and whatever he does in the way of BDSM beyond that point is a criminal assault.
		Consent must be an act reflecting a positive state of mind.
		I have argued elsewhere that healthy BDSM play depends on a relationship of equality (Equality and Why Dominate) and that there is plenty of scope for the growth of trust and the exploration of our boundaries without the risks of non-consent (Power and Control).
	members.iinet.net.au /~phoban/consent.html (3075 words)

	Akakor - Pagan Master/slave Lodge - Complete FAQ
		At the core of BDSM is the reality that Masters and Mistresses "own" their slaves and often insist that they wear identifying markings of same, which may be something as simple as a removable collar worn on special occasions, or as hard core as a permanent brand or tatoo.
		For instance: there are no "BDSM virtues", morality or standard ethos that the whole of the BDSM communities attempt to hold to other than the basic use of a safeword for slaves to put a stop to any scene at a club that's "getting out of hand".
		If a BDSM participant, Pagan (or any other free willed individual) hurts another person, it might be our choice to approach that person and investigate their reasons for doing so - partly so a peaceful resolve might be acquired for both parties before the hurt festers and becomes another one of society's greater problems.
	geocities.com /CityOfAkakor/AkakorFAQ.html (12702 words)

	BDSM - Not for me
		This consent may be given at a different time, in different circumstances however it is continuing consent which distinguishes BDSM from abuse.
		This requires that the person consenting and surrendering control (the submissive) understands the implications of that surrender, and has placed limits or boundaries on the extent of control surrendered.
		BDSM is not her problem; there is always some variation of play which could avoid any specific difficulty she may experience.
	members.iinet.net.au /~phoban/not_for_me.html (2473 words)

	BDSM (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		There are as many practices, philosophies and ways of living that fall under the umbrella of BDSM as there are people enjoying the many facets of this lifestyle and exploration of sensuality so don't take this discussion as anywhere near complete in it's scope.
		A bit of a warning; because BDSM involves highly intense and sometimes "forbidden" or "taboo" practices, we will often have emotional expectations that are unrealistic or we may even experience extreme roller coaster emotions.
		Still others play with BDSM only in a sexual/sensual arena and are quite 'vanilla' in their day to day lives.
	www.dark-stars.com /bdsm.htm (3467 words)

	Domsub.info - Binding Consent
		For instance, there is the concept of "binding consent", sometimes called "consensual nonconsent." These phrases seem to be used in hushed terms, almost as though they were the family members that no one is comfortable talking about.
		In such a relationship, two people have consented to "date." However, either party is free to discontinue the relationship at any time and neither individual is obligated to continue the relationship if they don't wish too.
		However, there is another type of consent called "binding consent." "Binding consent" refers to consent that either cannot be revoked or to consent that cannot be revoked unless certain conditions are met.
	www.domsub.info /bindingconsent.html (1128 words)

	Leather and Hyde: Kink and Consent in the Courtroom
		The major, critical dialogues over consent and rape shields laws weren't continued, and I can't help but feel that had the legal pundits followed the Alpert case with the Jovanovic case, we might have witnessed a solid dent occur in the public's waffling perceptions of consent.
		And, just in case the corpse of consent still had a touch of life left in it, Judge Wetzel dealt an executioner's blow in a matter of seven simple words, telling the jury that "consent is not a defense to assault" as he discharged them to their deliberations.
		Her BDSM work has been previously published on the Internet by Leather Online and Section 12, but Leather and Hyde was her first regular column, originally hosted by About.com's BDSM site and relocated here with her kind permission.
	no.place.like.home.mindspring.com /abbot/articles/dh981001.htm (2383 words)

	Key terms which will be used in these documents (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		SM) between responsible and consenting adults; just as consent separates sex from rape, so to does consent separate BDSM from abuse.
		The paraphilias of sexual sadism and sexual masochism have specific and limited criteria which differentiate these from BDSM as we define it.
		What constitutes damage depends on what is acceptable to the recipient; however, if a person comes in with repeated or long term/permanent effects, or those which impede daily life, keep an eye on the situation, make sure that the activities were consensual, and give them safety information.
	www.cc.columbia.edu /cu/cv/services/health/terms.html (468 words)

	Consent Form Reviews, Discussions and News
		Consent Forms can now be purchased online at lawyer-free prices.
		US Legal Forms may be able to provide a document template for Consent Forms.
		ave the husband and wife sign > consent forms and because of the consent forms, the husband is > the legal...
	www.legalspring.com /content/consent-form.aspx (624 words)

	State v. Van - Nebraska Personal Injury Lawyers
		As noted, consent is clearly a defense to the sexual assault charge.
		Thus, the mere fact that J.G.C. did not verbally or physically resist is not determinative of whether he consented to the acts.
		The record includes evidence that J.G.C. was subject to beatings for disobeying Van and that he revoked his consent to the BDSM relationship prior to the acts of sexual penetration.
	www.napil.com /PersonalInjuryCaseLawDetail20622/Page13.htm (608 words)

	Only solutions.
		Regardless of whether sexual activity was involved in the incident in question, Cromer's consent to assault and battery upon him by Appleby by means of a dangerous weapon cannot absolve Appleby of the crime charged punishable under G.L. c.
		It'll also be pretty hard to argue consent in a state where one can't consent to a sadomasochistic relationship that results in bodily harm.
		Regardless of my thoughts on BDSM (I'm pretty much for it, though, as long as it's well controlled and not harmful), the law is fairly clear.
	onlysolutions.blogspot.com (5195 words)

	Results for: 'consent' (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		Read about consent in the free online encyclopedia and dictionary.
		Find results for consent and anything else you are looking for instantly!
		Thousands of people are inflicted with this disease and don't even know it.
	1www.myserver.org /Directory/consent.html (178 words)

	Safe, Sane, Consensual (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		In BDSM consent is handled in many ways...from the sub who negotiates every scene..to the TPE who has only one choice..accept or decline the collar.
		Someone who is new to a real life BDSM relationship, may still well have years of self explorations in areas.
		If we are going to present hard and fast rules someone who has been doing X...is gonna say that this is not for me...not because X doesn't belong in BDSM, but because it is beyond what we are telling them it is safe, sane or consensual to do.
	soiuser.hyperchat.com /redox/ssc.html (869 words)

	BDSM -- BDSM and the Law (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		The NLA-I Law Project: The National Leather Association is looking for volunteers in a nationwide project to recognize the legal status of BDSM in various localities.
		BDSM-LegalIssues mailing list: This list is dedicated to legal issues surrounding BDSM as a consentual lifestyle, businesses whose major trade or product caters to people who engage in BDSM, and groups who are looking to discuss legal issues as they endeavor to set up groups/clubs/organizations.
		BDSM Professional Information: "Serious background information for people, confronted with erotic power exchange in their profession" from the POWERotics Foundation.
	www.io.com /~ambrosio/law (2924 words)

	Porn Probes: Dangerous Knowledge, Dangerous Ignorance
		Sexual quotation is not sexual harassment if and only if it is reasonable to believe that the quoting causes no unnecessary harm and promotes no significant misuse of sex-role stereotyping; informed consent of students is obtained; and substitute work or no-penalty withdrawal from the course is permissible to prevent unnecessary harm.
		The nature of consent in BDSM, by prostitutes [San Francisco Task Force on Prostitution Final Report], professional porn performers, and in amateur porn are all detailed, with due attention to the "harms of consensual sex" (in Robin West's phrase).
		The limitations of autonomy-based accounts of consent are examined with reference to the differing perspectives of Korean-American, Mexican-American and Navajo cultures [LJ Blackhall et al, "Ethnicity and Attitudes Toward Patient Autonomy," JAMA, v274 n10 (September 13, 1995): 820-825; JA Carrese et al, "Western Bioethics on the Navajo Reservation: Benefit or Harm?," 826-829].
	www4.ncsu.edu /~n51ls801/probes.html (3650 words)

	Tanos: A personal view of Master/slave relationships
		The word "slave" is sometimes used quite loosely in BDSM to refer to any submissive, or even to the paying customer of a dominatrix: "Mistress Stryct seeks slaves" as the phonebox cards say.
		Furthermore, there is often agreement that the slave has entered into a relationship in which obedience is not just given, but in which the Master acquires the authority to obtain obedience.
		Within the BDSM scene, the word "slave" is sometimes used quite loosely to refer to any submissive, or even to the paying customer of a dominatrix.
	www.tanos.org.uk /MSarticle (1686 words)

	brn_gamble : Fandom Definitions -- June, 2005 (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		Canon elements are the core (or bible) of a given fandom and create the 'laws' on which authors base their fanfic in that genre.
		Consensual: A 'warning' in a fanfic template (or included in the Summary statement) that indicates that all parties participating in a given activity (usually sexual in nature) have consented to be involved -- as opposed to Semi-consensual and Non-Consensual (non-con).
		Semi-Consensual: A 'warning' in a fanfic template (or line in the summary) indicating that one or more parties participating in a given activity (usually sexual in nature) have not specifically consented to be involved.
	www.greatestjournal.com /users/brn_gamble/14285.html (6161 words)

	ScienceDaily -- Browse Topics: Society/Sexuality/Politics_of_Sexuality
		Justice for Oliver Jovanovic - Maintained by the Jovanovic Legal Defense Fund, relating to the conviction of an individual for acts he claimed were part of a consensual BDSM scene.
		BDSM D/S and the Law: Legal Issues of Concern to Kinky People - An attorney's opinions on civil and criminal laws affecting BDSM activities, and how to deal with police if they become involved.
		The Worldwide Age of Consent - Contains information on when people of various sexualities can legally have sex in countries around the world.
	www.sciencedaily.com /directory/Society/Sexuality/Politics_of_Sexuality (915 words)

	Beliefnet.com
		Many can't really manage one relationship well, yet they do AND add children to the mix.
		And there is a huge difference between polygyny where a man can add another wife or 200 whether or not his first wife wishes and a modern poly marriage where all partners love each other and consent.
		BDSM relationships are also considerably more complex, I will probably never get into another one, but I'm not about to say what others should be allowed to do based on what I don't want.
	images.beliefnet.com /boards/message_list.asp?pageID=4&discussionID=376340&messages_per_page=4 (363 words)

	The House of Tanos
		I've also started some pages about my Cellars, with photographs of the cellar rooms and some of my collection of BDSM equipment, especially Steel Bondage.
		My original BDSM interest was the Master / slave relationship, involving the transfer of not just power but also authority.
		My old personal overview of the Master / slave subculture reflects this, and I also collect quotations related to M/s.
	www.tanos.org.uk (187 words)

	Britain plans to ban violent internet porn \| Hip Mama (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		There is a subgroup of the porn industry that involves slave trade, and by slaves I don't mean voluntary slaves in the BDSM sub-culture.
		I mean, when I think of violent porn I think of people who are involved against their will or people who beat up women and men to within an inch of their life.
		I don't think of BDSM as violent porn, because I think the people who participate in that as a group who consent to that kind of play.
	www.hipmama.com /node/13189 (1961 words)

	Welcome to SMAntics: Everything BDSM! (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		If you...are under the age of consent, live in a state or area where BDSM Activities are illegal (such as: Alabama, Georgia, Kentucky, North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Tallahassee (FL), Utah, and Virginia), do not wish to view or are easily offended by kinky adult subject matter, then this site is NOT for you!
		I do not find adult content material about alternative lifestyles, or BDSM to be offensive or objectionable.
		Book marking the location of these pages on this web site whereby this warning page is not clearly available shall constitute an implicit violation terms of this agreement as set forth.
	www.smantics.com (252 words)

	The Rose and Thorn Chronicls/TimeOut (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		BDSM: Knowledgable consent is given to the scene by all parties.
		BDSM: The "bottom" has a safeword that allows them to stop the scene at any time they need to for physical or emotional reasons.
		BDSM: The people in the scene are careful to be sure that they are not impaired by alcohol or drug use during the scene.
	heaven.beautyscastle.com /news/vol12/77.html (8222 words)

	The Stranger - Pullout - Back-to-School Bible - Abstain from Stupid Sex
		Young ladies should refrain from describing sex they regret as "rape." Consent can never be withdrawn retroactively.
		And while many college counselors tell new students that a person cannot consent to sex when inebriated, anyone who has spent time in the real world knows this is foolishness.
		That God also approves of scat ("My beloved put his hand by the hole of the door, and my bowels were moved for him," Song of Solomon 5:4) troubles the fainthearted but should come as a comfort to corprophiliacs.
	www.thestranger.com /seattle/Content?oid=23279 (513 words)

	mad musings of me: Sex Archives
		These were stories, and all emphasised consent, generally between people in an already existing relationship.
		Not my idea of fun - A Aboard The Orgy, but IMO what consenting adults do at a private party is their business.
		I hope I have made it clear before that i really don't approve of dogging; on the other hand, what consenting adults do is their business, and whilst I would prefer it if they did it in private, I'm not unduly bothered by them doing it at night in remote-ish spots.
	www.madmusingsof.me.uk /archives/sex (6085 words)

	Informed Consent (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		Informed Consent, Parental Permission, and Assent in Pediatric...
		Informed Consent Maxwell J. Mehlman, JD In the modern field of health law and bioethics,
		In general, informed consent means that: A physician or nurse
	www.cougarhealth.com /health_topics/Informed_Consent.html (430 words)

	Over Her Knee: OTK
		Most of them are more orientated to BDSM and the whips and chains crowd rather then to those of us who prefer good old fashioned otk spankings and discipline.
		One that I can refer you to is the Disciplinary Wives Club which can be found at this url http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ Also if you would be interested in chatting with me and discussing our mutual interests I would love to hear from you.
		Informed Consent BDSM in the UK has a great personals section, but it's very shackles and chains and concerned with LTR Master/sub relations.
	oshioki.typepad.com /over_her_knee/2004/11/otk.html (1383 words)

	Consensual non-consent (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		There are websites for people who belong to religions that advocate male-head-of-household marriage.
		Sometimes a direct, clear yes or no is necessary, but especially in a long-term Taken In Hand relationship, it often isn't necessary.
		That does not mean there is not consent, as ConfusedofHomeCounties explains.
	www.takeninhand.com /taxonomy/term/158 (2032 words)

	Satin Slippers Library - Erotic Fiction for Women (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		Finally, Satin Slippers is a special place with a special audience: women.
		While our stories run the full gamut from Straight and Curvy Couples to Non-Consent and BDSM, the one thing we insist upon is that stories be appealing to women.
		The question “what do women want?” is, of course, as old as the Garden of Eden, and there are plenty of ways to approach that as an author.
	satinslippers.com /library/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=453 (1165 words)

	srichard: Claimed, Chapter 10 (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-10)
		WARNING/NOTES: Dubious consent, BDSM, chan, spanking, bondage, orgasm denial, object penetration, bestiality, and breathplay.
		Harry didn't say anything about what he'd come to realize there, bent over the breakfast table.
		This sort of line-crossing...the way that BDSM play and real I'm-pissed-at-you punishment shouldn't ever be confused in order to keep a healthy relationship; god, I'm so glad that this is fiction because I love watching it.
	www.livejournal.com /users/srichard/116426.html (821 words)

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