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| | Gay Spirituality & Culture: What is the Importance of Being Gay? (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-30) |
 | | Wilber, of course, doesn't use the terms "gayness," "homophilia," "heterophilia," "same-directed love," "other-directed love," "heterosexism," or "homophobia," in the same way that I do. |
 | | For example, I do not simply define homophilia as love for a member of the same sex; rather, I see it as a deep universal structure implicit in all manifestations of love, specifically as same-directed. |
 | | In other words, when we love another person, our love is both an expression of love for sameness and for differences; that which we love that is the same is what I call homophilia or gayness. |
| gayspirituality.typepad.com /blog/2004/05/what_is_the_imp.html (2325 words) |
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