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| | Lead and Follow |
 | | Both are sensitive to each other and are prepared to follow, and the dance becomes more of a balanced conversation, back and forth, a give and take, a discussion, maybe even a civilized debate between colleagues; rather than the more one-sided or even autocratic relationship in traditional lead and follow. |
 | | Or, you both might be dancing at the limit of your ability to hear, interpret, and execute (as you learn more and more and rise through the phases), and sometimes he is on top of it and in control and sometimes you are. |
 | | Following is a discreet activity, a unique skill, just as leading is. While the leader has to visualize the figure and communicate clearly what he wants his partner to do, the follower has to interpret that communication and then execute the request. |
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