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| | Psychology Today: How to Let Love In |
 | | Rather, it has deep roots in early experience, affecting the very identity of a person so that as a partner nothing can penetrate his or her armor. |
 | | According to Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., coauthors of Receiving Love, Transform Your Relationship by Letting Yourself Be Loved, such praise-resistance is nearly universal-and it's why many relationships don't get better even when one partner dramatically changes patterns of behavior to say and do all the right things. |
 | | You can ask your partner, "Tell me what happens inside you when I express love." In this instance, you are exploring emotions and memories in a way that encourages tolerance and acceptance. |
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