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| | Oedipal Suffering |
 | | In order to be free to love and to be responsible in one~ s intimacies, one must be free of infantilism, free of childish and adolescent patterns of conflict (of dependence versus independence, and of constant looking for love, and despairing of love, and desperate coping, waiting for love to disappear). |
 | | Because of the "Oedipal" conflict, one's heart-feeling for any individual with whom one is intimate does not become full. |
 | | Therefore, emotional-sexual relationships are never satisfactory, and cannot become satisfactory, except in individuals who persist in observing this "Oedipal" complication to the point of most fundamental self-understanding (and, thus, the moment to moment really exercised capability of transcending themselves). |
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