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Topic: Paddle (spanking)


  
  Spank with Love: Spanking implements
Spanking with your hand only is recommended not only because it is safer, but also because it is more personal.
Paddles with holes drilled through the board sting more because the holes reduce the air resistance and prevent the building of an air cushion (the same physical principle finds application in a flyswatter).
Spanking paddles are available for purchase in many countries, especially in the U.S.A. They come in various sizes, wood types, weights and shapes.
www.geocities.com /spankwithlove3/implements.html   (1783 words)

  
 Spank with Love: Reader's feedback, Nov 2000
A proper bare bottom spanking with the open hand across one's lap is sufficient discipline for little children, provided that they are shown plenty of love and that the rules are clearly understood by them.
Spankings are always done bare bottomed, and over my knee, always after bath time, I always let my daughter remove her own clothing I feel that this allows them do maintain a certain amount of dignity.
spanking over underpants if not on the bare), positioning the child across the parent's lap, spanking the bottom with controlled determination, and subsequently reaffirming the particular bond of affection--and its effectiveness is badly undermined if spankings are allowed to become commonplace.
www.geocities.com /spankwithlove3/feedback_nov.html   (3741 words)

  
 Creflo Dollar Ministries   (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-19)
Spanking should commence around the age of two, when a child begins to have an understanding of what “no” means and they choose to disobey.
Before a spanking is given, ensure that you have clearly indicated to the child that if he continues with his present course of action, he will receive a spanking.
Spanking is not hitting, kicking, throwing objects, slapping the child in the face, pushing, leaving bruises on the body or breaking bones—that’s child abuse!
www.creflodollarministries.org /articles/monthly_luka.html   (640 words)

  
 THE CERTIFIED CHRISTIAN MENTOR TRAINING MANUAL
Spanking on bare skin (having your child pull down both pants and underpants) is most effective, and is appropriate for either mom or dad to administer to a child of either sex up until the child reaches the age of puberty.
Spanking by a parent to an opposite-sex child who has reached the age of puberty is, in my opinion, appropriate if delivered either on the child's underpants or pajamas when nothing is worn underneath, achieving a near approximation of the stinging effect.
Spanking of the bare buttocks by the same sex parent is, in my opinion always appropriate at any age and achieves the greatest sting with the least bruising.
www.serve.com /Blansett/c0322761/m8492073.HTML   (3274 words)

  
 CBC News Indepth: Spanking
In a second spanking case related to the Aylmer, Ont., Church of God, a family comes under investigation for its disciplinary practices.
American tourist David Peterson is acquitted of spanking his five-year-old daughter in a London, Ont., parking lot after she closed the car door on her brother's hand.
Every schoolteacher, parent or person standing in the place of a parent is justified in using force by way of correction toward a pupil or child, as the case may be, who is under his care, if the force does not exceed what is reasonable under the circumstances.
www.cbc.ca /news/background/spanking/timeline.html   (859 words)

  
 Spanking study gets big play in the media
Baumrind defined spanking as striking on the hands, buttocks or legs with an open hand, without inflicting physical injury and with the intention of modifying the child's behavior.
For example, a child may grow up to be emotionally unstable due to a particularly difficult relationship with a stepparent or due to a lack of affection from parents, and not specifically due to physical punishment.
Though she concedes that moderate spanking can be an effective method to stop a child from misbehaving, Baumrind noted that "authoritative and somewhat democratic parents were optimally efficacious" in raising emotionally healthy children, regardless of whether they used spanking.
www.apa.org /monitor/dec01/spanking.html   (469 words)

  
 Experts: Spanking Harms Children, Especially Girls
"When a girl is spanked by her father or paddled by a male school teacher, she is being trained to submit," says Jordan Riak, a retired school teacher and the executive director of Parents and Teachers Against Violence in Education, a California-based nonprofit group dedicated to getting corporal punishment banned in U.S. schools.
The woman never told anyone of the spanking and its effects on her until she wrote the letter--a reaction common to girls, according to Nadine Block, the founder and executive director of the Center for Effective Discipline.
Riak says that when teachers or other educational authorities spank students, especially girls, they actually are attempting to gratify their own sexual needs and to disguise their actions as educational or disciplinary.
www.womensenews.org /article.cfm/dyn/aid/662/context/archive   (1645 words)

  
 spanking ritual   (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-19)
The purpose of spanking is to administer discipline for a breach of rules or protocols.
At the conclusion of the paddling the submissive is to remain in the disciplinary position until released by the Master.
Upon the conclusion of the spanking the submissive is to again face her Master with her head bowed.
members.cox.net /shaunawolf/spanking.html   (516 words)

  
 To Spank … or Not to Spank - child discipline Essence - Find Articles   (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-19)
Spanking is not my primary choice of disciplinary measures; like anything, it must be used with discretion.
However, he stresses that spanking is not about destroying a child and should never be done in anger.
Studies have shown that children spanked in anger lose respect for the parent and view them as out of control--negating the whole point of discipline, which is to muster self-control.
www.findarticles.com /p/articles/mi_m1264/is_2_30/ai_54831766   (1031 words)

  
 Spanking Paddles Wood Spanking Paddle Dimensions
Spanking Paddles Handmade of Domestic and Exotic Woods..
Since I make every one of my paddles with my own hands from solid wood, there will be some differences in size, color, and grain configuration from one paddle to the next.
Holes in spanking paddles are beveled on one side of the paddle unless you ask that they not be beveled.
www.thewilbournegroup.com /Specialties/TechStuff.htm   (298 words)

  
 Spank with Love: References and links
Spanking, especially when administered to a child out of anger, can easily escalate into legal definitions of physical abuse...Straus (1994) reports that,...parents who approved of corporal punishment had a much higher rate of going beyond that and severely assaulting their children than did parents who did not approve of corporal punishment.
Your aim should be to spank until you elicit a cry of repentance from the child...
To ban all spanking in the hope of stopping abusive beating is as pointless as banning all alcohol in the hope of stopping drunkenness.
www.smartspanking.com /references.html   (9898 words)

  
 Implements made just for the purpose of spanking -- Childhood Spanking Memories   (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-19)
By a dedicated implement I have in mind the novelty paddles, a wooden spoon or cutting board reserved for spanking and not used for cooking/serving, a belt cut in half to be used only for spanking, or a thin twig cut and peeled to be a switch.
My Mom nearly always paddled me with her red paddle that was short and round it stung mainly because i was small and she applied many smacks.
I still am unsure what the spanking slipper is. Once my grandmother asked if my mom had spanked me. I said no she didn't because she didn't have her yardstick.
www.voy.com /187010/5489.html   (2688 words)

  
 Christian parenting expert James Dobson and others on spanking to discipline kids -- Beliefnet.com
Spanking isn't the only discipline option, says Dr. James Dobson, founder of the Christian organization Focus on the Family, but it remains a valuable tool.
He advises using a neutral object such as a paddle or a switch to administer spankings to children.
On Christian Parents Network, Mark and Sallie Benedict write that spanking should not be done for accidents like spilled milk, but only when a child willfully defies a parent's clearly defined rules.
www.beliefnet.com /story/160/story_16022_1.html   (413 words)

  
 Spare-Rods.com
We have all seen, or perhaps even done it ourselves, a parent grabbing their child in the process of doing something wrong and spanking them in anger.
To help your child understand that you love them and that the spanking is because of their behavior, have the child fill out an appointment form such as the one on the left.
Before applying paddle to a child you should determine the force of your swing.
www.spare-rods.com   (245 words)

  
 s m u g - bumping uglies
Just let me take this moment to say that I really don't get the whole adult spanking phenomenon that seems to be sweeping the nation with more momentum than any other sexually deviant craze of recent years.
Everyone wants to be spanked except me. I was the recipient of a lap-dance several minutes before writing this sentence (I try to stay on the scene) and I was kind of getting into the whole affair, until the dancer pulled one of those self-spanking moves (you know what I mean?
I timed-out Edna for fifteen minutes in the bathroom and told her that she had to seriously think about what she had done and would have to talk about it honestly and like a big girl when her fifteen minutes were up.
www.smug.com /7/bumpugly.html   (970 words)

  
 this is 'just me' :))) (check out http://www.papercut.biz/emailStripper.htm)
Little Paddle was secretly pleased that he was the only one of all his friends in that bag that Master decided to play with that day, but he figured he'd keep quiet when he went back inside, because he didn't want everyone else mad at him...
The problem was, she knew how special Little Paddle was to Master [and, truth be told, to her also, though she'd NEVER tell Master, He might become jealous or angry that she liked Little Paddle almost as much as Master liked him, and then who knew what would happen?].
So, Sunshine paid for the repair, and she and Little Paddle [who was glowing with happiness since he was finally put together again] went back home to the Village of Elk Grove (which, Little Paddle observed, at least had elks, and some groves of trees, so perhaps the humans weren't so strange after all)...
members.aol.com /lilsuzq32/myhomepage/profile.html   (2387 words)

  
 Keyword   (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-19)
After his friends paid $25, Keith Lowery was handcuffed and spanked with a 3-foot-long paddle and a belt while one of the strippers restrained his head with her legs, investigators with the Pulaski County Sheriff's Office said.
Parents who spank their children as a form of discipline are not necessarily engaging in child abuse, even when they use a belt and leave a bruise, the state Appellate Court has said.
Spanking is in the news again, and parents have every reason to be concerned that anti-spanking fanatics will not rest until corporal punishment is banned throughout society.
www.freerepublic.com /focus/keyword?k=spanking   (5260 words)

  
 Honey, I Spanked The Kid
He had been spanked by his father a number of times before, but on those occasions the man had been very stern and foreboding.
It was bad enough that he had to be spanked; it didn’t seem fair that his Dad was in such a good mood about it.
But then he saw the arms returning the paddles to their places on the side of the machine.
members.tripod.com /eric_blyton/honey.htm   (2296 words)

  
 Paddle - OneLook Dictionary Search
noun: a blade of a paddle wheel or water wheel
Phrases that include Paddle: paddle wheel, paddle wheeler, paddle box, bent shaft paddle, boat paddle, more...
Words similar to Paddle: spank, coggle, dabble, dodder, larrup, paddled, paddler, paddling, toddle, totter, waddle, oar, row, splash around, more...
www.onelook.com /cgi-bin/cgiwrap/bware/dofind.cgi?word=Paddle   (387 words)

  
 Spanking - Salon
A California woman sues her company after being paddled during a motivational event.
A sex survey in several Asian countries reveals a special love of spanking in one nation.
The survival legacy of slavery taught fls to spank more than whites -- and that's why you don't see as many fl kids having public tantrums.
dir.salon.com /topics/spanking   (257 words)

  
 Definitions of Common Words and Phrases
BOTTOM - The one receiving the spanking; the spankee.
This allows the air cushion between the paddle and skin to escape at impact.
WRAPPING - Normally a result of leather straps, paddles and tawses that are too flexible and too long.
www.angelfire.com /realm/wispanker/definitions.htm   (1130 words)

  
 Focus on Your Child
When spankings are properly managed, there is no reason to fear they will produce harmful emotional or psychological effects in children.
There is some controversy over whether a parent should spank with his or her hand or with some other object, such as a belt or paddle.
I have never spanked my 3-year-old because I am afraid it will teach her to hit others and be a violent person.
www.focusonyourchild.com /hottopics/a0001043.cfm   (395 words)

  
 American school paddling, Feb 2006 - CORPUN ARCHIVE uss00602
You'll find just as many folks who say that paddling a child has the potential of inflicting serious physical harm, and sends the message to children that it is OK to use violence to make someone bend to your will.
The vote was largely symbolic since the district hasn't allowed spanking or paddling in the past five or six years.
In the new arrest warrant filed Thursday, the alleged victim claimed Shifflett “spanked” her repeatedly during one incident in 1990 when she was 10 and a student at his school.
www.corpun.com /uss00602.htm   (4931 words)

  
 FAQ's
What I am saying is that a paddle is one tool parents can use that should never have been taken away.
Either because Spanking is not needed or that you agree another form of punishment is more appropriate.
If you have a paddle you must be prepared to use it without anger and with respect.
www.spare-rods.com /FAQ.html   (548 words)

  
 Spanking with paddle results in child abuse conviction   (Site not responding. Last check: 2007-10-19)
Spanking with paddle results in child abuse conviction
OPELIKA (AP) — A Lee County man has been convicted of one count of child abuse after a spanking he gave to one of his daughters with a wooden paddle caused bruising and injury.
"He had been charged with two counts and we worked to prove that the paddling that he gave the child was severe and excessive, causing the child injury," Abbett said.
www.decaturdaily.com /decaturdaily/news/051029/spanking.shtml   (134 words)

  
 Oak Hairbrush Spanking Paddle
This paddle looks just like your mother's hairbrush, minus the bristles.
It feels good in my hand and the sensation when applied seems to be thuddy with a residual sting.
Three inches wide and 11½ inches long, the paddle is constructed of a solid piece of oak.
www.thewilbournegroup.com /Specialties/OakHairbrush.htm   (92 words)

  
 Strippers Busted In Birthday Bash - July 11, 2005
JULY 11--If The Smoking Gun is known for anything, it's our diligent efforts to point out the dangers of gentlemen's clubs.
Our latest cautionary tale of pleasure's pitfalls comes from Jacksonville, Arkansas, where a trio of strippers is facing criminal charges for the onstage beating a male patron with a wood paddle and a leather whip.
According to a Pulaski County Sheriff's Office report, truck driver Keith Lowery told investigators that he was handcuffed to a pole at the Sensations club and set upon by the dancers during a June 17 visit.
www.thesmokinggun.com /archive/0711051paddle1.html   (246 words)

  
 Southern Education
An examination of spanking and paddling as physical abuse, sexual abuse and sexual harassment.
My dad spanked me (with his hand, a belt or a switch) until I was in my teens and learned to fight back.
His temper just got out of control, and spanking and hitting was the only way he knew to react.
www.nopaddle.com /mandy_letter.asp   (769 words)

  
 Paddle game - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
A PADDLE GAME is a game involving the use of a paddle.
in computer games, notably by Atari, the 'paddle' is a type of joystick.
This disambiguation page lists articles associated with the same title.
en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Paddle_game   (88 words)

  
 The VS Finishing School - Spanking/C.P parties, adult uniforms, gym knickers, caning, spanking dvds
The three are bent over their bar stools and spanked by each of the ladies before being told to bend over a suitable chair to recieve the tawse, Miss Shanelle uses her 2 tailed tawse while Miss Lina uses her 3 tailed tawse.
He is taken over her knee for a spanking over his pants which are soon pulled down so that she has a clear target.
And so her ordeal starts with an OTK spanking, swiftly followed by the small paddle, slipper, hairbrush, strap, belt, crop, birch, ruler, strop and finalising by touching her toes for 12 strokes of the cane.
www.thevsfinishingschool.com /spankingdvds.htm   (3334 words)

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