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	NationMaster - Encyclopedia: Scene (BDSM)
		It may help to think of a scene as the BDSM equivalent of what might be considered a romantic interlude or erotic encounter.
		Scene music is music that one might play during the scene to set the tone or mood.
		When a scene takes place in public it may be because the participants enjoy the thrill of being watched by others, or because of the equipment available, or because having third parties present adds safety for play partners who have only recently met.
	www.nationmaster.com /encyclopedia/Scene-%28BDSM%29 (347 words)

	Control Tower - Control Tower & Kink Calendar - The Stranger, Seattle's Only Newspaper
		BDSM can sometimes be therapeutic, but BDSM scenes and BDSM relationships are no substitute for therapy.
		If you attend a BDSM technique class and you really feel that you know more about the topic than the presenter, then please, go forth and produce your own event.
		The Higher Powers of BDSM have a sense of humor, and if they hear you, they will visit you with persistent erotic visions of that precise activity until you give in to it.
	www.thestranger.com /seattle/Content?oid=31623 (871 words)

	BDSM -- What It Is, What It Means
		It can seem odd and even outrageous for the inclination towards BDSM games in sex to be approached the same way, given how often they are misunderstood as cruel and vicious, not connected to love and mutuality at all.
		Each participant has their own opinion of why this is so, of course, but the general consensus seems to be that men, with their constant pressures to never show weakness and always be completely in control, enjoy the opportunity to hand the reins to someone else for a while.
		However, since BDSM is openly acknowledged as "unusual" and "different," its practitioners consider frank discussion of what each partner wants out of a given session to be a sine qua non for sex in general.
	www.io.com /~wwwomen/sexuality/bdsm.html (4148 words)

	Scene (BDSM) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
		It may help to think of a scene as the BDSM equivalent of what might be considered a romantic interlude or erotic encounter.
		When a scene takes place in public it may be because the participants enjoy the thrill of being watched by others, or because of the equipment available, or because having third parties present adds safety for play partners who have only recently met.
		Scene music is music that one might play during the scene to set the tone or mood.
	en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Scene_(BDSM) (214 words)

	Scene - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
		Scene (fiction), an element of a larger fictional work such as a play
		Scene (filming), a part of action in a single location in a TV or movie
		The Scene (band), there are two bands called The Scene, a Dutch rock band and a Canadian rock band
	en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Scene (177 words)

	Transwiki:List of BDSM terms - Wiktionary
		Aftercare: The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which the participants calm down, discuss the previous events and their personal reactions to them, and slowly come back in touch with reality.
		BDSM often involves an endorphin high and very intense experience, and failure to engage in proper aftercare can lead to subdrop as these return to more everyday levels.
		BDSM activities, especially those incorporating a degree of sensation play often cultivate the endorphin rush as part of their "payoff" to the sub.
	en.wiktionary.org /wiki/Transwiki:List_of_BDSM_terms (1702 words)

	BDSM - Wipipedia
		BDSM is a catch all phase used to describe an interest in a number of related patterns of human sexual behaviour including sadomasochism, power exchange or bondage.
		BDSM activities are practised by male and female individuals of all sexualities: gay or straight, or bisexual, as well as the transgendered.
		Being involved in BDSM or Dominant/submissive relationships on a regular basis is often referred to as being "in the lifestyle".
	www.londonfetishscene.com /wipi/index.php/BDSM (1918 words)

	BDSM Dictionary (Site not responding. Last check: )
		BDSM is negotiated between those participating and is something that is enjoyable and enhances a persons well being.
		BDSM is something that is enjoyable and enhances a persons well being.
		There is a second type of troll who accuse those that actually live and participate in real life BDSM of beings clueless and not knowing what they are talking about, usually accompanied by their clueless and often dangerous BDSM advice.
	www.bdsm-education.com /dictionary.html (11429 words)

	MAGIC'S WORLD: Basic scene protocols "Manners of Masters and slaves"
		Most people who have entered the scene within the last couple of years really have no idea of what constitutes Basic Protocols nor what they specifically are.
		scene has become more an more "causal" to the point where even Emily Post would be aghast if she was among us.
		Those involved within a scene are in their own world and should only be disturbed for reasons determined by one of authority (usually regarding health, safety, welfare or personal emergency).
	www.darkangel.com /kinks-protocol.html (1085 words)

	Alt.sex.bondage FAQ
		Sometimes the claim is made that such BDSM relationships are just ways for the dominant to break down their submissive's will, and to accept abuse because the submissive (according to the dominant, and perhaps also in the submissive's own opinion) deserves no better.
		This kind of relationship is _not_ a consensual BDSM relationship; the dominant in a consensual relationship listens to and respects the limits of their bottom, and does not seek to break down the bottom's personality, but rather to build it up through the kind of relationship that both enjoy and desire.
		Even a hard scene, involving ruthless domination and serious pain, is an act of love, and a very deep one at that; it takes a lot of trust and a strong connection between the people involved to create such a scene.
	www.sexuality.org /l/bdsm/bdsmfaq.html (22156 words)

	Hot Pink! (Site not responding. Last check: )
		I've been involved in the BDSM "scene" since 1991, and put up these pages as one way to give back to the community some of what I've learned over the years.
		I follow modern BDSM philosophy, which states that what we do should be Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
		I realize that my definition of monogamy (scenes with outside partners are OK, but sex is not) is not going to work for everyone, but my partner and I are pretty happy with it for ourselves, which is all that really matters.
	ms.ha.md.us /~hotpink (903 words)

	Main Page - Wipipedia
		The London Fetish Scene Wipipedia is a on-line encyclopaedia of all things fetish and SM, it is being continually expanded and improved by the community.
		Many people in the scene are not strictly speaking fetishists but enjoy wearing rubber and leather as part of their interest in BDSM and alternate sexuality in general.
		BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism) is a catch all phase used to describe an interest in sadomasochism, power exchange, and bondage.
	www.londonfetishscene.com /wipi/index.php/Main_Page (922 words)

	Cuffs: BDSM Overview (Site not responding. Last check: )
		BDSM is a contraction of three abbreviations: B&D, D&S, and S&M. B&D stands for Bondage & Discipline, which refers to play involving someone being tied up or otherwise restrained and/or spanked.
		Second, BDSM is firmly based on consent, while victims of abuse are not given a choice in what their attackers do to them.
		Rather, it is a case of abuse that happens to be in a BDSM context.
	www.stuorg.iastate.edu /cuffs/bdsmoverview.html (982 words)

	#Submission “Scenes” at Night (Site not responding. Last check: )
		For those of you who are new to the online community, a BDSM scene is much more than "cybersex", they are passionate, brave, erotic, powerful and offer glimpses of the participants that often are not seen at play parties or organized live demonstrations.
		All scening is welcomed, but please take into consideration when "edge play", "the dark side" or "torture" is involved it may be misunderstood.
		While we don't discourage this type of scening, we only ask that you take that into consideration and present a scene in a way others can understand, as opposed their being turned off by it.
	www.cuffs.com /submission/subscene.html (594 words)

	BDSM
		In deze domina bdsm scenes zijn de meesteressen streng voor hun slaafjes.
		In deze sm scene wordt er niet voorzichtig omgegaan met het kontje van dit slaafje.
		In deze bdsm scene wordt een vrouw met haar benen wijd geketend, en vervolgens worden er bossen brandnetel op haar kutje en schaamlippen gelegd.
	bd-sm.startspot.nl (772 words)

	BDSM
		BDSM is a term which describes an number of related patterns of human sexual behaviour.
		Many of the specific practices in BDSM are those which, if performed in neutral or nonsexual contexts, are widely considered unpleasant, undesirable, or disadvantageous.
		BDSM fashion is typically very revealing fetishistic fl leather or metallic plastic or PVC outfits with high-heeled boots and fishnet tights, derived from costumes worn in the BDSM scene.
	www.jahsonic.com /BDSM.html (2355 words)

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		BDSM can involve playing on the edge between fantasy and reality, using that fantasy energy to create something fantastically strong and passionate in the real world; but this does not mean that fantasies are anything but imagination, or that fantasies will become real without your choosing to make them so.
		BDSM is not an end in itself, but a means to connect with others; it is ultimately about relating, and about developing yourself.
		BDSM is nothing but opening up the powerful energy within us all, and being willing to experience that energy with and through others; it is intimate and loving.
	bdsm.spuddy.org /newsgroups/upb/d7b04b8a5bb6ba74422c48c9cea9cd44.txt (22290 words)

	Sex, and the BDSM scene
		BDSM people actually do include the sex, more often than not, when it's a private situation.
		Safe sex is allowed at my parties, but people rarely choose to take it that far, because they'd rather have sex in private or in their own beds.
		The many very vocal Gay activists who are out there speaking on behalf of all BDSM people should become more aware, and remember, that heterosexuals have their own sexual subculture and set of rules.
	lauragoodwin.org /sex.htm (1054 words)

	Interrogation scene, a personal experience
		It occurred to me that there were several ways to approach such a scene, a myriad of possibilities tumbled through my mind but for the purposes of expediency I narrowed it down to just two.
		For Scenario 2, I envisaged a scene whereby only truth would be acceptable, and this gained more by a combination of persuasion, trickery and disorientation than any applied physical pain.
		To say that nikki's experience and reaction during this scene was strong would be a tribute to understatement.
	fetishexchange.org /interrogation-scene.shtml (2262 words)

	Definitions and Glossary of BDSM Bondage and Fetish Terms - BDSM Store
		In a BDSM play party, they watch the scenes to make sure house rules are followed and the play is safe.
		Can be used to refers to "public scene" at a party where the participants let others watch or a “private scene” where just the dominant and submissive are present.
		Spanking Bench - BDSM furniture, a variation on the saw horse, onto which a submissive is attached (by cuffs, rope, etc.) for the Dominant to spank and play with.
	www.bdsmstore.com /glossary.html (5260 words)

	BDSM_NZ Mailing List & Scene Info (Site not responding. Last check: )
		The BDSM Emblem is copyright 1995 by Quagmyr@aol.com who maintains the copyright in order to protect the symbol.
		Other than that, please act maturely, and remember that everyone in the BDSM world has their own set of kinks some of which you may find unpalatable, and everyone has their own view on such things as Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
		A feature of our group is that we have set up automated reminder messages of meetings/parties etc for the BDSM groups in New Zealand with whom we are personally involved and those which have advised us of details of their get togethers.
	homepages.ihug.co.nz /~nm156/bdsmnz.htm (2349 words)

	Negotiation in BDSM scene - Bondage-Guide.net
		In fact, negotiation in BDSM resembles the usual way people get familiar with each other's interests and needs to know what are those chances to get on well with the exception that all these issues are clearly stated for the purpose of further consent.
		The usual way partners negotiate is by using a negotiation form, where all these details are structured in a list to make a well-thought decision.
		It is also quite essential to communicate after the end of the scene and not just abruptly close it.
	www.bondage-guide.net /post/negotiation-scene.html (452 words)

	BDSM Myths (Site not responding. Last check: )
		While people can assume roles for the duration of a scene and then come out of those roles afterward, remember that while they are in that scene the role is real, others stay in their role all the time and their relationship is very real and should be respected.
		If you have to be the one who always has the best scenes, the best play partners (or the reverse "doesn't everyone want to play with me") be the loudest, and let everyone know how wonderful you are, you will probably find yourself on the obnoxious side of the line.
		Fact: The real scene community can be a complicated world but part of the "I'll never get it" feeling is because you have found something and you want it very quickly.
	www.nlacolumbus.com /global/smmyths.html (1709 words)

	St. Louis Scene - FAQ
		BDSM comprises so many different activities, that it's nearly impossible to give a specific answer to this question.
		The vast majority of BDSM activities are just "play" between consenting adults, and as such, the participants really have nothing to worry about from the law.
		BDSM follows the rules of "safe, sane, and consensual." No one is ever asked to do anything against their will.
	members.aol.com /scenestl/faqdefau.htm (3026 words)

	Compare Prices and Read Reviews on Jay Wiseman - Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction at Epinions.com
		Wiseman carefully and (usually) clearly describes all manner of BDSM equipment, concepts, and terminology (the latter is supplemented by a detailed glossary at the back of the book).
		It's very nice, especially in a beginning-level BDSM book such as this one, to have someone with medical training saying "this technique is completely safe; that one is unacceptably risky for most people".
		While he may have meant it as an example to provide inspiration, his writing often seems to imply that his way is the only way to do things, when in fact every dom may have a slightly different approach.
	www.epinions.com /content_186580700804 (664 words)

	Gyno Exams
		It's probably a more entertaining pee scene than the others as Raven tries to control her peeing but she gets the giggles and loses control.
		That's what happened here as the scene cuts in while she pretends to be talking to her mom on the phone.
		Scene 8 - Bashful Piddler - Raven turns all bashful as we sneak into the washroom to watch her pee.
	www.assfistinganalfisting.com /gyno-exam-sex/gyno_exams.html (1022 words)

	St. Louis Scene - Groups and Links
		We've found that in general, the key to happiness with BDSM is to be very in tune with what you want, rather than what you think someone else thinks you should do.
		Others find that they are more satisfied when BDSM is a regular part of their existence, so they attend occasional play parties every month or so, as well as attending one or more of the annual BDSM conventions.
		Others find that they want BDSM in their lives on a more frequent basis, such as several times a month or even every day in a 24/7 relationship, as that's what makes them the happiest or most fulfilled.
	hometown.aol.com /_ht_a/scenestl/grpages.htm (3802 words)

	Strictly BDSM: Main Page (Site not responding. Last check: )
		Having well over 25 years in the BDSM, D/s, Leather scene, as a Dom, I am well acquainted with what it takes to make a good toy.
		I try to design items that are for those just entering the scene, for those looking for good heavy toys, and for those even looking to spice up their life.
		Being in the scene myself, I take extra care with every item I create, as if I was creating it for myself.
	www.geocities.com /strictlybdsm/main.html (197 words)

	SCENEprofiles Interviews with interesting scene players
		I started doing interviews with BDSM group leaders because they have such interesting ideas about their own practice and our community.
		As a leader myself, I wanted to share the particular challenges and joys of making a BDSM group happen.
		As I moved out of leadership and focused on my own writing, I discovered that I particularly enjoyed interviewing authors because they have such a broad range of experience and ideas to share.
	www.sensuoussadie.com /interviewslist.htm (135 words)

	The BDSM FAQ
		When first getting into the scene, it can often be somewhat intimi- dating to try playing with SM for the first time, especially if neither of you have done it before.
		Cutting is having someone cut you, carefully and lovingly, in the context of a scene.
		If you meet someone at a party who you've known from the net, they'll probably still want to be known under their net name, and if you're writing about that party later, make sure you have their permission before describing them or scenes in which they participated (even if you use only their net name).
	misa.ppages.com /engelsk/engfaq/bdsmfaq.htm (22150 words)

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