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  BDSM -- What It Is, What It Means
Each participant has their own opinion of why this is so, of course, but the general consensus seems to be that men, with their constant pressures to never show weakness and always be completely in control, enjoy the opportunity to hand the reins to someone else for a while.
However, since BDSM is openly acknowledged as "unusual" and "different," its practitioners consider frank discussion of what each partner wants out of a given session to be a sine qua non for sex in general.
If a submissive wished to try an activity that they were uncertain of (such as anal sex), they may agree to giving it a shot during negotiation.
www.io.com /~wwwomen/sexuality/bdsm.html   (4148 words)

  
 Urban Dictionary: submissive
A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).
Janet was a submissive in bed, but she knew how to stand up for herself when her boss tried to push her around.
Characterizes the acceptable play within the SM community: players adhere to safety precautions within their activities, do not participate in practices that will injure their partners (mentally or physically), and obtain consent by negotiating scenes and scene related activities before carrying them out.
www.urbandictionary.com /define.php?term=submissive   (305 words)

  
 Submissive bdsm during dating online
A submissive is one who enjoys having any of a variety of BDSM practices performed upon them by a "Dominant"; or one who holds a submissive position within a relationship based upon dominance and submission (Ds or D/s).
In many BDSM communities, there is a distinction between a submissive and a slave.
In a broader context, a submissive is one who needs to give most or all authority over his or her life to a dominant, who will protect, guide, and nourish the submissive.
www.bdsm-datingonline.net /submissive-bdsm-online.html   (328 words)

  
 Submissive - Wipipedia
In BDSM, a submissive refers to the person who takes on the submissive role for the duration of a scene or is a submissive partner within a power exchange relationship.
submissive as a noun is mostly synonymous with sub but some people use it more widely to denote anyone disposed to be submissive and would therefore say that a submissive might be a bottom, a sub or a slave.
Submissives also vary in the extent to which they engage in play, in how often they play, and even in whether they consider their role "play" at all.
www.londonfetishscene.com /wipi/index.php/Submissive   (378 words)

  
 BDSM@Everything2.com
BDSM is really a very compacted acronym, and in its extended form expands to: Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.
The commonly accepted theory within the community is that BDSM emerged from World War II soliders, who sexualized the intense emotions of their wartime experiences and associated them with the severe utilitarian aesthetics and the psychological domination required of the military.
BDSM is not therapy to work out your childhood trauma, nor an outlet for your anger issues, nor a short-cut to getting laid when your pathetic ass can't get laid any other way.
everything2.com /index.pl?node=BDSM   (2364 words)

  
  IC: Submissive - Encyclopervia article
In BDSM, a submissive refers to the person who takes on the submissive role for the duration of a scene or is a submissive partner within a power exchange relationship.
submissive as a noun is mostly synonymous with sub but some people use it more widely to denote anyone disposed to be submissive and would therefore say that a submissive might be a bottom, a sub or a slave.
Submissives also vary in the extent to which they engage in play, in how often they play, and even in whether they consider their role "play" at all.
www.informedconsent.co.uk /encyclopervia/Submissive   (493 words)

  
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 Male (new to BDSM) seeking submissive female
I'm pretty new to the BDSM world and I am seeking an attractive female sub to play with.
I have a girlfriend who is fairly well versed on the BDSM scene however, she is not the sub type and has encourged me to seek one out.
I ask that any and all ladies who are interested please send a pic along with a response and I look forward to talking to someone new...
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 Various BDSM
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 Submissive seeking BDSM household to rent room   (Site not responding. Last check: )
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 Domination and Submission Phone Sex
You can choose to talk to a submissive girl and dominate her or choose a Dominatrix and be trained.
If you have no experience in the BDSM lifestyle or maybe just curious to act out a roll play fantasy, you're more than welcome too.
We have both doms and subs that are dedicated to the BDSM lifestyle on our domination and submission phone sex line.
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 BDSM? What's with this bondage/sadomasochism stuff, anyway?
BDSM is highly erotic, usually (though not always) involves sex or sexual tension; and is highly psychologically charged.
One person (the "bottom" or "submissive") is choosing to allow the other person (the "top" or "dominant") to have control over him or her in some way--perhaps by allowing the dominant to tie them up, perhaps by allowing the dominant to spank them, perhaps simply by doing whatever the dominant instructs them to.
Being submissive in a BDSM scene can be tremendously liberating, particularly for people who aren't comfortable exploring their sexuality or their personal boundaries.
www.xeromag.com /fvbdsm.html   (7058 words)

  
 BDSM Education- submissive   (Site not responding. Last check: )
When the submissive is having a hard time the submissive should try to focus on what makes them happy with their Dom/me. Try to focus on the fact that you can't live without the happiness, joy, closeness, etc. that being a submissive to your Dom/me gives you.
Some submissives will write in their journals everything their Dom/me means to them, others will do a task they dislike but know will surprise their Dom/me they have done what they dislike on their own (example-clean something, or put on a clothing item you dislike but your Dom/me loves).
The Dom/me that agrees to take the submissive on as a life partner will push the submissive to break down those barriers they have put up around their submission, to let go of the control they have placed upon themselves and to open up and be true to themselves.
www.bdsm-education.com /submissive.html   (1725 words)

  
 Equality in BDSM
A power exchange relationship in which a submissive surrenders some (and perhaps a great deal of) power to her lover may be seen as a combination of a covert and an overt transaction.
The overt displays of BDSM may include restraining the submissive, spanking or flogging, humiliation and an infinite variety of other subjugations all intended to emphasise the dominance of the dominant and the submission of the submissive.
Submissives wondering if their relationship is abusive are encouraged to consider whether their consent is truly free and offered as an Adult–Adult transaction between parties who both treat themselves and the other as equals.
www.geocities.com /phoban2000/equality.html   (5791 words)

  
 The Doctrine Of The Unowned Submissive: Raven Usher
For the unowned or unaccompanied submissive, the BDSM world, or “lifestyle” as it is commonly referred to by it’s practitioners, is ripe with pitfalls and dangers.
It is important, however, for the submissive to understand the situation and not to allow herself to be kept in the stable by false pretences and empty promises.
If however the unowned submissive wishes to catch the attention of the dominant, it is a good idea to ask the dominant for permission to talk to the submissive he owns.
www.leathernroses.com /submission/usherdoctrine.htm   (5992 words)

  
 The BDSM Circle, D/S Lifestyle, Glossary
The word BDSM is a combination of 3 acronyms, BD for Bondage Discipline, DS for Domination and Submission and SM for Sado Masochistic.
Usually the terms of ownership of the submissive, by the Dominant, as well as major limits set by the submissive are outlined in the contract.
Means by which a submissive person can tell the dominant person that during a play,that he or she has had enough (pain physical or mental) or has reached his or her limits.
www.bdsmcircle.net /dslifestyle/glossary.htm   (1441 words)

  
 Control Tower, , by Mistress Matisse (04/08/04)
And if a submissive begins to expect sex from a Mistress during a scene, it changes her/his focus from "how can I serve my Mistress?" to "when am I going to get off?" If I want sex and BDSM, there are plenty of people I can have no-strings kinky sex with.
But sincere and talented submissives are hard to find, and once I've got one trained to my liking, I'm not about to jeopardize such an arrangement just for a few orgasms.
Doing BDSM turns me on, and it would be easy, in the heat of a moment, to use my submissives to gratify those desires.
cgi.thestranger.com /2004-04-08/control.html   (406 words)

  
 Why BDSM Relationships Are Not Abuse by Raven Shadowborne
The abuser does not trust him/herself nor their partner to be faithful, committed, etc. A submissive may fear possible punishment for a mistake, but in a healthy BDSM relationship, the submissive does NOT fear the dominant themselves.
As well as by giving their submission to the dominant, they receive in return what they need to satisfy their inner desires, that being the dominance that only a dominant person can give them.
BDSM is, for so many people, just another way of expressing their love, commitment and desire for their partner.
www.wingsoffiresurvivors.com /whybdsm.htm   (983 words)

  
 Tammad's BDSM Page   (Site not responding. Last check: )
One of the most wonderful aspects of the BDSM "community" is the tremendous tolerance and acceptance for variety.
Nobody is turned on by all aspects of BDSM play, yet we all respect the fact that every kink has its fans.
Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List A questionaire for a Sub to fill out and provide to their Dom/Top before playing.
ms.ha.md.us /~tammad/over21/bdsm.html   (839 words)

  
 BDSM 101 (or Frequently Asked Questions)
BDSM can be dangerous some BDSM activities/scenes are more so than others which is why it is always imperative that safe practices are adhered to.
I contend that submission is voluntary - whereas slavery is not.
The dominant and submissive, typically, agree early on in the relationship on what may be considered as “correct” or “incorrect” behaviours, or actions.
www.angelfire.com /poetry/softs_poetry/faq.html   (2279 words)

  
 Compare Prices and Read Reviews on Gloria G. Brame et al - Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and ...
WARNING: This book is about BDSM (Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism), and if this is not an interest of yours, or if you are not an extremely open-minded person, you should skip not only this book, but this review.
Many people who aren't into BDSM think that you just lay a person down on their stomach or across your knees and start spanking.
And if you feel you are submissive, be very wary of who you submit to.
www.epinions.com /content_22120402564   (709 words)

  
 Compare Prices and Read Reviews on Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism ...
The submissive, if he or she, and I stress here, CHOOSES to give their gift of submissiveness to the Dom or Domme(*as the Dominant is called, the male and female version*), and they don't RESPECT the Dom/me, then it simply doesn't exist.
If the submissive uses the safe word, then the Dominant is to RESPECT that, for the safe word means that the submissive's boundaries has been crossed and that he or she wishes for the scene to stop.
Honesty is another reason-- You simply cannot LIE about anything; the power exchange between the Dominant and the submissive will cease to exist if one or the other is not honest about their wants and needs as far as the relationship goes.
www.epinions.com /book-review-1F94-C7182D1-38E87316-prod2   (798 words)

  
 HTP v4i1 - Drugstore Cowboy
This is the general term used to describe all areas of kink It includes D&S, B&D, and S&M. Dom(inant): The one who is empowered in a BDSM relationship.
Often BDSM relationships are referred to as D&S relationships because they involve a dominant and a submissive.
Sub(missive): One who surrenders his or herself to another for the purpose of erotic power exchange.
www.oblivion.net /htp/v4i2/v4i2master.htm   (737 words)

  
 Joan Kelly, The Pleasure's All Mine, The Memoir of a Professional Submissive, BDSM, spanking, bondage, author ...
Joan Kelly's The Pleasure's All Mine is the moving, insightful and very sexy memoir of a professional submissive.
Kelly took a few moments to chat with Eros Zine about The Pleasure's All Mine, writing in general, and her life as a professional submissive.
BDSM is just not as taboo as it used to be I guess.
www.eros-zine.com /articles/2006-06-27/joan_kelly   (1869 words)

  
 BDSM Chat Submission
#submission is a chatroom and an online meeting place for those interested in alternative lifestyles to discuss the BDSM scene in general, and topics which effect everyone in our community.
#submission is for those who DARE to live out their fantasies; in a safe, sane and consensual environment.
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 Playful and sober ruminations on BDSM and D/s. : BDSM, D/s, S&M: Speculations Archives
Psychological etiology of the submissive man’s desire to surrender and be controlled by a dominant.
BDSM submissive men and women have a range of needs and desires they wish to act out with their dominants.
BDSM relationships span a rich spectrum from the seemingly heartless and harsh to the tender and romantic.
www.downonmyknees.com /archives/bdsm_ds_sm_speculations   (1403 words)

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