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| | MetroActive News & Issues | Teen Sex and Virginity |
 | | Toss out words like "sexual behavior of teenagers," "virginity," and "highly effective," and the parents of adolescents claw their way to newsstand and keyboard in a panicky search for enlightenment, looking, always, for relief from the kind of angst they heaped on their own elders just long enough ago not to remember. |
 | | In other words, a virginity pledge, like glitter powder and Abercrombie and Fitch sweatshirts, is based on the painfully self-conscious surrender of self and not, as Hester wants to believe, on the early adoption of family values. |
 | | The part that is sneaky and amazing perpetuates the concept of "technical virginity," a state that is likely to be just as confusing and burdensome for a 16-year-old as sexual intercourse, if not more so, given its uncomfortable and much-talked-about proximity to untruth. |
| www.metroactive.com /papers/sonoma/02.08.01/virginity-0106.html (1286 words) |
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