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	Out of the Shadows: About BDSM, Part 2
		BDSM is a risky activity, and a top who courts a bottom heatedly and then refuses to allow the bottom any way out, no matter how miserable the bottom is during the experience, may be forcing the bottom into a nonconsensual situation.
		Tops learn to go slowly when working with a new partner lest the bottom be pushed into a state that is bad and from which the bottom cannot safeword or otherwise signal that things have gone too far.
		While most tops do not want to engage in therapy that may be better left to qualified counselors and psychologists, tops and bottoms are usually caring partners who are not living in a vacuum when they interact.
	www.sexuality.org /l/subnet/AboutBDSM2.html (6380 words)

	Out of the Shadows: About BDSM, Part 2
		BDSM is a risky activity, and a top who courts a bottom heatedly and then refuses to allow the bottom any way out, no matter how miserable the bottom is during the experience, may be forcing the bottom into a nonconsensual situation.
		Probably the most common reason that bottoms and submissives hesitate to safeword is fear of disappointing the top by calling a sudden halt to some activity.
		If the bottom cannot speak during the scene (say, because the bottom is gagged), a common safeword mechanism is for the top to give the bottom a jingly cat toy or ball the bottom can drop if there is a problem.
	www.sexuality.org /l/subnet/AboutBDSM2.html (6380 words)

	BDSM Voyeur Terms Definitions Dictionary
		The terms 'dom' and 'sub' to describe individuals have slightly more currency in the heterosexual scene than among gay men and lesbians, where the terms 'top' and 'bottom' are more common.
		Common phrase for a bottom who is over demanding and while purporting to be submissive attempts to control the scene by manipulation, usually to increase the intensity of what's going on or to invite other activities rather than to defy or disobey the top.
		A word or words agreed before a scene begins that a bottom can use to ask the top to ease up or to stop the scene entirely: the non-verbal equivalent, which may be necessary in the event that the bottom is gagged, is a safe signal or stop signal.
	www.bdsmvoyeur.com /bdsm_dictionary.htm (1680 words)

	Definition of BDSM
		For example, a bottom might ask to be tied up, and his or her top might decide to honour that request, asking the bottom if there were any particular things he or she wanted the top to do to him or her tonight.
		BDSM is a convenient abbreviation for most of the interesting activities discussed in alt.sex.bondage.
		Some people claim that the bottom is always the one who's really in control, no matter how things look.
	www.radix.net /~dglenn/defs/bdsm.html (689 words)

	Encyclopedia: Top (sex)
		By extension, the term "top" is also used in BDSM to mean a partner who applies stimulation to another, and who may or may not be dominant.
		The terms "dominant" or "active" have been used for "top," though these may be confusing as the sex in question needn't be part of a dominance relationship, nor is the bottom necessarily 'inactive.'
		Tops sometimes identify themselves by wearing a set of keys on the left side of the belt or a color-coded handkerchief in their right rear pocket.
	www.nationmaster.com /encyclopedia/Top-(sex) (689 words)

	Bottom (BDSM) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
		It should be noted that the bottom is most often the partner who is giving instructions—the top typically tops when, and in the manner, requested by the bottom.
		Note that in BDSM sex, it is commonplace for two partners to switch roles from one encounter to the other, depending on mood and preference, a practice known as switching.
		At the other is a bottom who enjoys the intense physical and psychological stimulation but does not submit to the person delivering them.
	en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Bottom_(BDSM) (295 words)

	Why BDSM?
		BDSM is highly erotic, usually (though not always) involves sex or sexual tension; and is highly psychologically charged.
		One person (the "bottom" or "submissive") is choosing to allow the other person (the "top" or "dominant") to have control over him or her in some way--perhaps by allowing the dominant to tie them up, perhaps by allowing the dominant to spank them, perhaps simply by doing whatever the dominant instructs them to.
		Everything that happens in a BDSM relationship is consensual; and believe it or not, it's not just about the dominant getting what he or she wants--it's more about the submissive getting what he or she wants.
	www.xeromag.com /fvbdsm.html (4635 words)

	The soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm FAQ list
		Soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm is a Usenet discussion group, or newsgroup, about various topics including sex and bondage.
		Is everyone either a top or a bottom?
		Plenty of other SM writers are on the net, and sometimes some of them send me questions and answers of their own.
	www.unrealities.com /adult/ssbb/faq.htm (1049 words)

	General BDSM and Sex Information
		What do BandD, SandM, DandS, "top", "bottom" mean: Johnson Gray
		Screamer Rant: Real and True and Their Misplacement In BDSM: Screamer *
		Christians and BDSM Q and A: Sir Gardener
	www.leathernroses.com /generalbdsm/generalbdsm.htm (1418 words)

	The soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm FAQ list
		Soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm is a Usenet discussion group, or newsgroup, about various topics including sex and bondage.
		Is everyone either a top or a bottom?
		Plenty of other SM writers are on the net, and sometimes some of them send me questions and answers of their own.
	www.unrealities.com /adult/ssbb/faq.htm (1049 words)

	Out of the Shadows: About BDSM, Part 2: Safety and BDSM
		BDSM is a risky activity, and a top who courts a bottom heatedly and then refuses to allow the bottom any way out, no matter how miserable the bottom is during the experience, may be forcing the bottom into a nonconsensual situation.
		The religious, social, family, and friendship taboos associating BDSM with abuse are so pervasive that almost no one does BDSM without eventually wondering in some way about the possible negative consequences or motivations behind what they are doing.
		It is common for people new to the powerful emotions of BDSM to be swept away when they find someone who matches their interests and fulfills things they never dreamed.
	cernaluna.rootshell.cz /submission/bdsm2.htm (7042 words)

	Definition of BDSM
		Because so many of the words one might use to describe these preferences seem specific to just one aspect of BDSM, push people's buttons, or only fit the ways some people play, folks in the scene use the generic terms "top" and "bottom".
		Nonetheless, it is quite common for one's interest in SandM to be in the context of bondage or DandS (the pain makes it so very much clearer that one can't get away because one is tied up, for example) or simply alongside an interest in bondage and/or DandS.
		BDSM = Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, SandM
	www.radix.net /~dglenn/defs/bdsm.html (689 words)

	Why BDSM?
		BDSM is highly erotic, usually (though not always) involves sex or sexual tension; and is highly psychologically charged.
		One person (the "bottom" or "submissive") is choosing to allow the other person (the "top" or "dominant") to have control over him or her in some way--perhaps by allowing the dominant to tie them up, perhaps by allowing the dominant to spank them, perhaps simply by doing whatever the dominant instructs them to.
		Some people like to be submissive all the time, some people like to be dominant all the time; some people like to switch, being submissive one day and dominant the next.
	www.xeromag.com /fvbdsm.html (4608 words)

	Sex-positive - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
		The sex-positive position also includes acceptance of BDSM and polyamory, as well as transsexuality, transgenderism, and other forms of gender transgression, in general.
		Sexual acts are ranked hierarchically, with marital heterosexuality at the top of the hierarchy and masturbation, homosexuality, transsexuality, and other sexualities that deviate from societal norms closer to the bottom.
		Under Western, Christian tradition, sex is seen as a destructive force except when it is redeemed by the saving grace of procreation, and sexual pleasure is seen as sinful.
	en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Sex-positive (383 words)

	Handkerchief codes - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
		Handkerchief code, more commonly known as hanky code or "flagging" was a way of indicating, usually among gay male casual sex seekers or BDSM practitioners in the US and Canada, whether they were a top or bottom, and what kind of sex they were seeking, by wearing color-coded handkerchiefs, usually in the back pocket.
		These were worn on the left side of the body for tops and the right for bottoms (this division is still somewhat common: tops may wear keys on the left belt loop and bottoms on the right, for example).
		The practice has largely fallen out of favour, perhaps due to the advent of internet dating and the coming out of more members of the leather and BDSM communities.
	en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Handkerchief_code (200 words)

	Handkerchief code - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
		Handkerchief code, more commonly known as hanky code or "flagging" was a way of indicating, usually among gay male casual sex seekers or BDSM practitioners in the US and Canada, whether they were a top or bottom, and what kind of sex they were seeking, by wearing color-coded handkerchiefs, usually in the back pocket.
		These were worn on the left side of the body for tops and the right for bottoms (this division is still somewhat common: tops may wear keys on the left belt loop and bottoms on the right, for example).
		The practice has largely fallen out of favour, perhaps due to the advent of internet dating and the coming out of more members of the leather and BDSM communities.
	en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Handkerchief_codes (210 words)

	Bisexuality
		These include the Bisexual flag, which has a pink or red stripe at the top for homosexuality, a blue one on the bottom for heterosexuality and a purple one in the middle to represent bisexuality, as purple is from the combination of red and blue.
		Because bisexuals sometimes do not feel like they fit into the gay community at large, and because bisexuals have a tendency to become invisible in public (fitting in rather seamlessly into both homosexual and heterosexual society), some are committed to forming their own communities and movement.
		Trysexual is a neologism and a pun on bisexual.
	www.portaljuice.com /bisexuality.html (790 words)

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