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| | Back Row Of The 'Beis: Dating Sociology |
 | | Basically, in a yeshivish setting where everyone marries too young to really develop as individuals beyond the context of their families or communities, the sorts of background checks that parents run are totally justifed and meaningful. |
 | | However, in an Modern Orthodox setting where people are already living away from home, in college after years in Israel, working and living as part of a young community, etc. and already building their own lives, most of the sort of background info that gets collected simply doesn't mean as much, if anything at all. |
 | | Now, in the system, as it is currently practiced by the Yeshivish Orthodox community, from months before a boy or girl decides to start dating, their mothers, fathers, siblings, grandparents, and various relatives start keeping an eye out for potential spouses. |
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